According to the book, The New Gay Teenager, as cited in a Time magazine article, the average age of girls coming out in 2005 was 16 while for boys the age is 14. These ages indicate a growing need for materials geared towards young teens or tweens as they struggle to determine their identity. Trying to address the complex needs of tweens who are dealing with changing bodies, growth spurts, hormones and finding their sexual identity requires a gentle attitude, listening ear and the willingness to be open about sex and related topics. Librarians are not usually called to be social workers but sometimes we are the only ones that tweens feel comfortable talking too. After all, if they are checking out materials about alternative lifestyles, the library clerk or librarian is going to know first hand.
Publishers are working to produce more materials for the homosexual population but overall there is still a tiny portion of magazines, books, movies dedicated for this clientele. Once librarians actually have materials, they face the challenge of making them accessible without being too public. After all, not all patrons are ready for the world to see what they are reading. So, how can we as librarians provide a decent selection of books on this sensitive subject and others?
Some libraries provide a separate section for youth or young adults with sitting areas, music collections and such making it easier for youth to relax and hangout in relative privacy. But other libraries may not have the means or room to allow for this. In Terrebonne Parish Library, Louisiana the library maintains a separate section of the library with books, magazines and computers for youth. While not completely separate, the booths and tables are set in an alcove giving patrons privacy for reading or quiet talking but not enough privacy for inappropriate behavior. By placing all books in the stacks, it is much easier for patrons to pull a book and peruse it without being seen.
Youth is a rough enough time without the added challenges of being different. Yet, as we have seen, more and more tweens and teens are choosing to expose themselves as different and not just in the sexual sense. It is our job as librarians to do what we can to help each patron find the materials they need regardless of our personal beliefs.
Cloud, John. "The Battle over gay teens." Time Magazine 2 Oct. 2005: 42-51. Print.